Tips for saying "NO" to your boss

1. Avoid saying anything definite when your boss asks you take on a task not related to your agreed-upon goals. If your boss asks you take on a project that doesn't directly support your agreed-upon goals, resist the urge to say "Okay" or "No" at the time of the request.
   
2. Buy time to think through your response. Find a way to gain time to devise a response.
   
3. Use your bought time to prepare a response. Develop a response to your boss's request.
   
4. Meet with your boss and explain how the added project might jeopardize your goals. Arrange a meeting with your boss to discuss your high-priority goals. Explain the potential negative impact of the proposed project on your ability to achieve your agreed-upon objectives.
   
5. Propose a reasonable alternative. Present an alternative plan that will enable your boss to get what he or she wants—and enable you to achieve your most important agreed-upon goals.